tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21578858.post7567704660184490775..comments2019-06-05T22:37:52.849-07:00Comments on Spectacular S: Nobody puts SS in a corner.2china4Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12803722404544035782noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21578858.post-46223663499468917172009-05-08T08:18:00.000-07:002009-05-08T08:18:00.000-07:00Poor, poor baby. I know exactly how hearbreaking ...Poor, poor baby. I know exactly how hearbreaking it is to see 'that look' on your child's face.<br /><br />Maybe with all other stimulus removed (looking at the walls) she was forced to face her emotions & then withdrew as a result (?) M will frequently check-out before she looks for me for help (no matter where she is) b/c that's what she learned to do early on.<br /><br />At our end, M making poor choices is normally a sign that she is struggling with some type of emotional pain - & she isn't able to self-regulate, or even understand what all these feelings mean. Her naughty behavior has always been her way of demanding my attention/intervention. We've been using 'time-ins' instead of time-outs recently & they seem to be much more effective. We're definitely rounding a corner lately.<br /><br />It's always one big puzzle to figure out, & I think you seeing all this will benefit your daughter immensely. <br /><br />Wishing you peace, healing, & a fantastic Mother's Day!~ Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13690058097250273124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21578858.post-81560869105889918872009-05-08T08:15:00.000-07:002009-05-08T08:15:00.000-07:00This must have been terrifying for both you and S....This must have been terrifying for both you and S. I appreciate that you took the time to re-tell it on the blog as it will help so many other parents dealing with similar issues. It must be so frustrating to deal with this, but it is better dealt with now that as a teenager. All the best to you on this journey.Bangshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08876027278380694775noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21578858.post-31245927188961271702009-05-07T16:52:00.000-07:002009-05-07T16:52:00.000-07:00You are amazing, insiteful, courageous and so guts...You are amazing, insiteful, courageous and so gutsy. God bless you for posting the reality of the problems of RAD kids. You are sooo tuned in that your little one will be fine. Wait and seeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com